Saturday, March 24, 2012

How can you love Lauren Wilder?

   Here is my question - how can you honestly love someone who can willingly tear apart a family?  I mean, I know there are scumbags in this world and everyone deserves love, but seriously.  If a person is willingly and knowingly partaking in a relationship who she knows is actively married and has small children, what kind of values can she honestly have that would make her a worthwhile person?  And then flip it - what kind of man do you think you are falling in love with that is willing to step out on his wife and small children and sneak around with you?  It's ridiculous!  "Yes at one point I loved her." THIS IS WHAT HE TOLD ME!  So I asked him "what did you love about her?"  And do you know what his answer was - NOTHING! Do you know why - because how can you love a whore with no morals or values?! And did she honestly think he was going to leave me, his family, for her?!  That's the intrinsic level, on an extrinsic level EWWW!!  Now I know I am not a tall, gorgeous supermodel, but I am rather nice on the eyes.  She - well let's just say I am NOT about 5'7 almost 180 pounds with saggy tits and hanging fat.  And no I am not exaggerating!  I, unfortunately, saw her nasty naked pictures. Now if you love your body then good for you - because she must love her body for sending pics like that out! 

   But yes, he said they loved each other at one point.  How sweet, the two of them sneaking off somewhere (which is light bulb number one!  If you have sneak around to do something then you are probably doing something wrong) cuddling, telling each other how much they love one another, intertwining fingers, her seeing his left ring finger with the pale indentation of where he takes his wedding band off, now that's love!  Excuse me one moment while I go vomit! 

  All I can say is I hope it was worth it - because Karma is one vengeful bitch who forgets nothing!

Saturday, March 3, 2012

I still want to smack Lauren Wilder

It's been about a month and the anger and fury is still going strong.  Does it subside?  I'm sure it does but when?  I am still patiently waiting.  I found a hotel receipt dated 2 weeks ago.  So really, even after everything that is going on, you both are still stupid enough to continue?  I didn't even bother telling him what I found - because I really don't even care. 

 He refuses to leave.  He swears he did nothing "with that slut" his words.  Well truth be told that is fine with me!  I did nothing wrong so why should I have to deal with finding before and after school childcare and paying for it and all the other daily things a single parent needs to deal with.  You see people do not realize this.  They think a single parent only deals with the big stuff - they don't think about the small everyday things - like if a child gets sick in the middle of the night, or school delays, or school projects, or dinners, the list continues!  Well the kids and I did nothing wrong so why should we be inconvenienced for his bullshit?  So let him stay.  Let him sleep on the floor and still take care of his kids!  Let him still pay his half of the bills.  All I care about his not being married to him anymore, both legally and spiritually - and I'm not!

I still want to smack her, above other things...

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

If I deny it then I didn't do it

Oh my goodness!  The fucking balls my beloved husband has.  "Okay, you want a divorce and me out of your life?  Here are my conditions!  Bam Bam Bam."  And the kicker, are you ready for this... "You cannot have sex with anybody."  I will wait for you to finish laughing because that is exactly what I did - to his face! 

  And of course he took this as a guilty conscience, like I'm the one stepping out on him!  Sure he does wrong and is now blaming me ;)  And you know this is not the first time he has done this. 

  Hmm, maybe if that's all I have to do to get my divorce...then I should just say yes AND use his term of faithful... I can fuck anybody I want but if I deny it then it's not true LMAO!

Sunday, February 19, 2012

I hope you never have to deal with this....

No. Your husband is the homewrecker. She didn't wreck anything, he did. His penis didn't magically appear in her vagina. If everything was fine in your marriage this never would have happened. Blaming the woman is simply your way of excusing your husband in part. You have no idea what he told her but it probably went like this "my wife won't have sex with me, she doesn't love me, she screws around on me, we are separated but live together for the kids".

And the fun begins!  Let the whores unite! Apparently this commentor did not read everything.
 
 I am not excusing my husband for anything!  He is 50% to blame for destroying my family.  Did you read anywhere that I did not blame him?  No, I don't think so.  As far as your comment of her not wrecking anything...let me ask you this.  Why does she get no blame if she KNEW he was married and had children?  Why is she not to blame when I called her and nicely told her she needs to stay away from my family that is still together?  Why is she not to blame for fucking him when she knew the situation that he was still married and with his wife?  I'm sure my dear sweet husband did feed her some lies, BUT here is when the blame lies on her...WHEN SHE KNOWS HE IS INVOLVED AND SHE DOES NOT WALK AWAY! 

  Sweetheart, you need to read my first post.  It is people like you that believe when a spouse wanders away that there are always underlying problems.  Let me tell you something, that is not always the case.  Sometimes, just sometimes, the problem is a cheating husband and his whore that knows there is a wife and children involved, and when that whore is informed of this and she tells me "yeah I know" (and yes that was her reply when I asked her if she knew this) then she gets her just desserts. Just like my current husband is. 

I hope you never have to deal with this....

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Lauren Wilder is a homewrecking whore

Just in case you needed a reminder LMAO!

It really is that simple

Here is what I do not understand.  If someone is telling you that they hate you and doesn't want ANYTHING to do with you - why do you still stay?  Why are you still crying and begging and pleading to stay.  Do you not realize how much I hate you?  Do you not realize that I do not believe you?  I mean, c'mon seriously, just fucking leave already! I do not want you in my life anymore!  Stop being a pathetic bitch and just go!  Your tears don't do anything for me!  Your begging for forgiveness makes me laugh!   JUST FUCKING GO! 

It really is that simple.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

His own personal hell

Soo, a little about the husband.  I have given him many chances, many benefit of the doubts, many grain of salts, many of many pretty much!  And throughout my wonderful marriage he has betrayed me on and off.  I think it has finally sunk in for him that "oh shit she is not playing anymore and I really screwed up this time!" Although he will never admit to it because like I said DENIAL is his middle name.  So he is still in my house...for the kids... and at first it was really pissing me off, BUT...wait for this one.  It is actually really killing him.  Because although he gets to see his kids (unfaithful husband but great dad) he is dying without his true wife.  He is dying watching me get along just fine.  He is in his own personal hell!!  Who knew it would work out this way.  And honestly I have no problem with him being around because I checked out years ago.  But I have to say I am getting some enjoyment out of seeing him suffer. Is that sick?

Monday, February 13, 2012

Lauren Wilder

I wonder how she is doing today?  I wonder if she feels any remorse or better yet, any humilation for what happened almost one week ago?  I confronted her while she hid behind her door and called her out...WHORE!  It was a great feeling.  Probably not for her...but definitely for me.  The sun seems to be shining a little brighter for me.  And I also wonder if she wonders why her "true love" aka my husband, has not shown up at her doorstep yet... Those close to me are wondering why I am not outwardly angry or sad, I tell them it is because I am done with all of this.  Being angry or sad only gives them power, and I am done with that! 

Sunday, February 12, 2012

I feel sick

Here is the problem with women...we control the pussy!  Sorry to be so blunt but that is the truth.  The problem occurs when society has women who take this power to hurt their fellow women - then you become a whore!  Some posts are as followed by Whores

> If you cheat on your wife, there is a possibility you will hear about me.

> Don't tell me your eyes don't ever linger, your mind never wonders. If you don't get caught, it never happened. Shhhhh...

> And one of the best ones ever.... Don't blame me.  I didn't tell him to fuck me, he came to me!

There are sites where these whores congregate (both men and women) and share their stories like they are proud of them.  I  have read stories about Whores who only date married people! 

It burns me when I hear people say "don't blame her" or "she's not the homewrecker".  This blog is for those Whores who are equally to blame as the married person.  Both of them are equal participants in the breaking of the family because both of them knew who and what was involved and did it anyway! 

And in my case...MY HUSBAND WILL NOT LEAVE! Not because he is being a bully,but because he is crying and begging me to keep him!  How about that Lauren?  What happened to your happily ever after?  Guess what!  You will never have it!! NEVER!!! Because whores like you do not deserve one!  Sure I can get satisfaction and keep my husband and laugh at Lauren but why?  Why put myself through that?  That means I do not blame my husband... that means I accept what he did to me and my kids.  Well not anymore!  Like I said They are both to blame and they will both suffer the consequences. 

She already knew he was married and had kids: That makes him a cheater and you a whore!

She already knew he was married and had kids: That makes him a cheater and you a whore!: This is my therapy and my personal choice of KARMA. I know everyone gets what they deserve but sometimes karma needs a little extra help. ...

Saturday, February 11, 2012

That makes him a cheater and you a whore!

This is my therapy and my personal choice of KARMA.  I know everyone gets what they deserve but sometimes karma needs a little extra help.  There are way too many good people in this world that have been betrayed and wish they could do something about it...well I am!  Why? Well quite frankly becuase you cannot sleep with a person who you already know is married and/or has kids and have nothing done to you!  And yes, although I know Karma will get her, I'm just helping her along.

 This is also for those good people who need to know that they are not the only ones and perhaps you cannot get back at your own "whore" who knew about the family he or she was breaking up and just didn't care.  I will call out my whore and you can use my satisfaction to try to help make you feel better.  And please also share if that makes you feel better too! 

 This is also for those people, both married or in a committed relationship, who discovered that their significant  other was cheating on them with a person WHO KNEW THEY WERE MARRIED AND/OR WITH KIDS!  Now I know I will get those commentors who will reply with "well it was your husband's fault as well", and yes that is true.  But that make him a cheat and her a whore.  I want readers to hear my story, help Karma with her busy life, and allow this blog to be an outlet for those who were done wrong by the pieces of worthless trash that would not go away. 

 My story starts...

  My marriage with my husband was not perfect.  Actually I will say "is not perfect" because we are legally still married, for now.  There has been a few marital discretions.  I don't know why I stayed in the marriage but I did.  Call me naive and young and believing that love could fix all...BLAH! 

  Several years ago I came across a love text on my husband's cell phone, so I naturally called the number... a WOMAN'S voice!  Funny thing is the first thing that came to my mind was to be calm.  Maybe this girl was being fooled and lied to and didn't know the man she was seeing was married and had small children.  I proceeded to ask her three questions 1. Are you sleeping with Mike? She responded yes. 2. Do you know he is married? She responded yes. 3. Do you know he has children?  She responded yes.  WHAT THE FUCK! Are you kidding me!  You already know this man is taken and yet you are still fucking around with him!!!  As a woman I just could not wrap my head around it!  As women we go through so much in this life and here is a girl that simply does not give a damn!  So I warned her to stay away from my husband and family.  I warned her that she did not know me and it was in her best interest to stay out of my life!

  She didn't.  Over the years I would come across her cell number.  I came across her dorm number at Bridgewater College in VA.  She would not go away. The only thing I knew about her was that her name was Lauren.  And funny enough my husband would not leave my house either.  He swore he did not know her and that he would never throw his family away for some whore.  LOL

 Present Day... Are you ready for this?  I come across a nude picture of a rather ugly woman on my computer. Ever have one of those episodes where you don't know how you know something, but you just can feel it?  Well I just knew this was her, but I did not have a name.  Confronted the husband...shocked look on his face along with denial - which should be his middle name by the way, and a final look from me telling him I was done with this nonsense. 

As I walk away from the computer I hear a "click clack" and return to see my husband on his e-mail...unfortunately for him my eyes were faster than the log-out button and I see her name...LAUREN WILDER!  There goes that feeling again. I just knew it was her!  Just knew it!  More denying from the husband and zero answers to my questions. Why? Because he had no answers.

  Well guess what.  In the present day world that we live in, it has become much easier to find information on people, and what do you know, 2 minutes into my search and I have an address in Taneytown, MD.  A quick flashback... my best friend called me a few months ago telling me she saw my husband on Commerce Street.  Fellow readers, he had no business being on that street, yet according to him he was dropping someone off.  Back to present day...what do you know... her house is on Commerce St.  AHHHHH!!

  Did I confront her?  You best your ass I did!  I warned her that if she did not stay away from my family that there was going to be a problem!!  She knew he was married!  She knew he had children!  Yet she continued to be involved with him!  Well I knocked on her door and after 5 minutes of my banging on that damn door she finally comes out, sort of, more like hiding behind her door.  Here is a paraprased recap of the conversation.

  Me: Are you Lauren?
 Lauren: Yes
Me: Are you fucking my husband Mike?
Lauren, which I will now call Whore: I don't have to answer that.
Me: Did I not tell you years ago to stay away from my family!
Whore: Yeah, so
Me: What the fuck is wrong with you!  The only reason your teeth are not on this curb right now is because I have kids and a future!  Why would you do this?
Whore: I don't have to answer to you?
Me: Oh yes you do!  You are woman enough to fuck my husband but your not woman enough to face me?
Whore: I'm here now aren't I?
Me: No you're not!  You're fucking hiding behind your door! I told you to stay away from my family and you didn't.  Now karma is going to get your ass! Do you really think he is going to marry you and give you a house and kids?  Do you really think he is going to fulfill all those promises to you?  He only said that because you were any easy lay! He will never be with you!  He is at my house right now begging me not to leave!  How stupid are you?

  And at this I threw a picture of my beautiful babies and my husband in her face so she could see what she was helping to break up.  Now people I have to say, it was very difficult for me not to grab her by her bleached ponytail and give her her just desserts with my fists.  But as an adult with children and a career the last thing I needed was police and court action from this whore, so I said my piece and walked away. 

  At this I will stop and take a breather.  My story does not end here.  This took place 4 days ago so there will be more...